i love you and hope you love me是什么意思
i love you and hope you love me是什么意思
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1.To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world对于世界而言，你可能只是一个人；但是对于某个人，你确是他的整个世界。2.i love you not because of who you are , but because of who i am when i am with you我爱你，不是因为你是一个怎样的人，而是因为我喜欢和你在一起的感觉
God send you down from heaven above.You make me pant and rock my world.All through the day I feel your love.It feels my heart and soul.
You are my destiny, I want to stay with you forever, till the end of the world, and sun don't shine. I will bring you the spring flower, summer breeze, autumn fruits and winter warms. To share both the happiness and tears is the greatest wish in my life.
Precious things are very few——That must be why there's just one for you.可贵的东西世间稀少——这正是为什么属于你的只有我一个。I love you more than I can say.我真不知该如何表达我对你的爱。Thinking of you still makes my heart beat fastest!想到你依然叫我心跳骤然加快！You are in my thoughts every minute of the day, in my dream every hour of the night.白天，每分每秒我都在想念你，夜晚，每时每刻我都在梦见你。Think of me sometimes while Alps and ocean divide us, but they ever will, unless you wish it. (Byron)长相思，天涯海角；情不断，山水难隔。（——拜伦）You're everything to me.你是我的一切。12星座英文情話__________________________火象星座__________________________牡羊座(3.21-4.20)Baby, will you be my valentine ? I will make you the happiest girl on earth.寶貝，當我的情人吧？我將使你成為世上最快樂的女孩。獅子座(7.24-8.23)That's the most romantic thing that anyone has ever done for me or said tome…你所為我作的事與對我說的話都是我經歷過最浪漫的…射手座(11.23-12.22)If you need me, I am here for you. I am on your side.如果你需要我，我會在這等候，我跟你是一國的。__________________________水象星座__________________________巨蟹座(6.22-7.23)I will wait for you to come home to eat.等你回家吃飯哦！天蠍座(10.24-11.22)To me, you are irreplaceable, because you are one of a kind.對我而言你是無法代替的，因為你是獨一無二的。雙魚座(2.20-3.20)Okay. Let us try to be the luckiest couple on earth.好！讓我們試著成為世上最幸運的一對。__________________________土象星座__________________________金牛座(4.21-5.21)Would you like to go to movies, KTV, or just have a chat over a good meal ata nice restaurant ?你喜歡去看電影、唱KTV或是去餐廳聊聊天吃美食呢?處女座(8.24-9.23)I love everything about you, especially the way you made me feel how specialI am.我喜歡所有的你，尤其是你如何讓我覺得我自己是多麼特別的。魔羯座(12.23-1.20)Oh, dear. I want you to know that being with you, it's as good as it gets.親愛的，世上沒有比跟你在一起更幸福的了。__________________________風象星座__________________________雙子座(5.22-6.21)I can think of nothing else but your dazzling smile.我的腦海中除了你那迷人的微笑甚麼都沒有。天秤座(9.24-10.23)I love your tender kisses and charming smiles.我愛上你那溫柔的吻和迷人的微笑。水瓶座(1.21-2.19)You are the one I have been looking for.你就是我一直在追尋的幸福。
我喜欢你我想永远和你在一起陪你到天涯海角I like that feeling when I miss of you, you always emotive  me when I saw your eyes. In your eyes, I could see your pulsatiled heart ,and also I could see my heart in your heart pulsatiled together. I saw a piece hope of sky in you r eyes. I would love to stay with you under that piece hope of sky with my whole life. I would love stay with you forever ,walk around the ends of the earth never leave you alone我喜欢那种感觉--当我想你的时候,当我看你的眼睛时，你总是让我感动。在你的眼睛中，我看到了你跳动的心，也看到了我的心在和你的心一起跳动。在那里我看到了一片希望的天空，我愿用我的一生和你一起呆在那天空下共享未来，我愿和你一起，走遍天涯海角永不分离。
My life has become a sunny dawn because of you
n.e.p.a.l. 尼泊尔never ever part as lovers.像情人一样永不分开i.n.d.i.a. 印度i nearly died in adoration.我差点在狂爱中死去h.o.l.l.a.n.d.荷兰hope our love lasts and never dies.愿我们的爱永远不变
1.I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you. 爱一个人不是因为他（她）是谁，重要的是和他（她）在一起有感觉。 2. The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside him knowing you can't have him. 思念的痛苦在于他就在你身边，你却不能拥有他。 3. Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile. 即使情绪很低落，也不要皱眉，想想爱你的人是如何着迷与你的笑容。 4. To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world. 对于世界来说，你是渺小的；但他（她）却把你视为独一无二的珍宝。 5. Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened. 不要因为爱而伤心落泪，曾经拥有才是最重要的。
I want to stay with you forever whenever what happen.我想和你在一起无论发生什么。嗬嗬！本人英语能力有限帮不了许多。我认为简洁易懂才是最重要的，不要咬文嚼字哦！
I want to be with you for the rest of my life.我想与你共度余生All I want is to be your life-long partner.我只想成为你的伴侣.I want to share my life with you.我想和你在一起.I will follow and love you no matter what happened.无论发生什麽我都将爱你并与你在一起.I will love you to the end of my life.我会爱你直到死.
自己选吧！   Where there is great love, there are always miracles. 哪里有真爱存在，哪里就有奇迹。 Love is like a butterfly. It goes where it pleases and it pleases where it goes. 爱情就像一只蝴蝶，它喜欢飞到哪里，就把欢乐带到哪里。 If I had a single flower for every time I think about you, I could walk forever in my garden. 假如每次想起你我都会得到一朵鲜花，那么我将永远在花丛中徜徉。 Within you I lose myself, without you I find myself wanting to be lost again. 有了你，我迷失了自我。失去你，我多么希望自己再度迷失。 At the touch of love everyone becomes a poet. 每一个沐浴在爱河中的人都是诗人。 Look into my eyes - you will see what you mean to me. 看看我的眼睛，你会发现你对我而言意味着什么。 Distance makes the hearts grow fonder. 距离使两颗心靠得更近。 I need him like I need the air to breathe. 我需要他，正如我需要呼吸空气。 If equal affection cannot be, let the more loving be me. 如果没有相等的爱，那就让我爱多一些吧。 Love is a vine that grows into our hearts. 爱是长在我们心里的藤蔓。 If I know what love is, it is because of you. 因为你，我懂得了爱。 Love is the greatest refreshment in life. 爱情是生活最好的提神剂。 Love never dies. 爱情永不死。 The darkness is no darkness with thee. 有了你，黑暗不再是黑暗。 We cease loving ourselves if no one loves us. 如果没有人爱我们，我们也就不会再爱自己了。 There is no remedy for love but to love more. 治疗爱的创伤唯有加倍地去爱。 When love is not madness, it is not love. 如果爱不疯狂就不是爱了。 A heart that loves is always young. 有爱的心永远年轻。 Love is blind. 爱情是盲目的。 Love is like the moon, when it does not increase, it decreases. 爱情就像月亮，不增则减。 The soul cannot live without love. 灵魂不能没有爱而存在。 Brief is life, but love is long. 生命虽短，爱却绵长。 Who travels for love finds a thousand miles not longer than one. 在爱人眼里，一千里的旅程不过一里。 Love keeps the cold out better than a cloak. 爱比大衣更能驱走寒冷。 Take away love, and our earth is a tomb. 没有了爱，地球便成了坟墓。 My heart is with you. 我的爱与你同在。 I miss you so much already and I haven‘t even left yet! 尽管还不曾离开，我已对你朝思暮想！ I‘ll think of you every step of the way. 我会想你，在漫漫长路的每一步。 Wherever you go, whatever you do, I will be right here waiting for you. 无论你身在何处，无论你为何忙碌，我都会在此守候。 Passionate love is a quenchless thirst. 热烈的爱情是不可抑制的渴望。 The most precious possession that ever comes to a man in this world is a woman‘s heart. 在这个世界上，男人最珍贵的财产就是一个女人的心。 One word frees us of all the weight and pain in life.That word is love. 有一个词可以让我们摆脱生活中所有的负担和痛苦，那就是&爱情&。 Every day without you is like a book without pages. 没有你的日子就像一本没有书页的书。 Love is hard to get into, but harder to get out of. 爱很难投入，但一旦投入，便更难走出。 Love is a light that never dims. 爱是一盏永不昏暗的明灯。 May your love soar on the wings of a dove in flight. 愿你的爱乘着飞翔的白鸽，展翅高飞。 She who has never loved, has never lived. 人活着总要爱一回。 Life is the flower for which love is the honey. 生命如花，爱情是蜜。 No words are necessary between two loving hearts. 两颗相爱的心之间不需要言语。 Precious things are very few in this world. That is the reason there is just one you. 在这世上珍贵的东西总是罕有，所以这世上只有一个你。 You make my heart smile. 我的心因你而笑。 The road to a lover‘s house is never long. 通往爱人家里的路总不会漫长。 Why do the good girls, always want the bad boys? 为何好女孩总喜欢坏男孩？ Being with you is like walking on a very clear morning. 和你在一起就像在一个清爽的早晨漫步。 It is never too late to fall in love. 爱永远不会嫌晚。 To the world you may be just one person. To the person you may be the world. 对于世界，你可能只是一个人，但对于某个人，你却是整个世界。 Where there is love, there are always wishes. 哪里有爱，哪里就有希望。 You don‘t love a woman because she is beautiful, but she is beautiful because you love her. 你不会因为美丽去爱一个女人，但她却会因为你的爱而变得美丽。 Love
the aspect may change, but not the essence. 爱是永恒的，外表可能改变，但本质永远不变。 Love is not a matter of counting the days. It‘s making the days count. 爱情不是数着日子过去，它让每个日子都变得有意义。 With the wonder of your love, the sun above always shines. 拥有你美丽的爱情，太阳就永远明媚。 Love is a fabric that nature wove and fantasy embroidered. 爱情是一方织巾，用自然编织，用幻想点缀。 First love is unforgettable all one‘s life. 初恋是永生难忘的。 In the very smallest cot there is room enough for a loving pair. 哪怕是最小的茅舍，对一对恋人来说都有足够的空间。 Love without end hath no end. 情绵绵，爱无边。 Love‘s tongue is in the eyes. 爱情的话语全在双眼之中。 In love folly is always sweet. 恋爱中，干傻事总是让人感到十分美妙。 There is no hiding from lover‘s eyes. 什么也瞒不过恋人的眼睛。 The only present love demands is love. 爱所祈求的唯一礼物就是爱。 The heart that once truly loves never forgets. 真挚恋爱过的心永不忘却。 Love warms more than a thousand fires. 爱情的炽热胜过千万团的火。 Your smiling at me is my daily dose of magic. 你嫣然的微笑是我每日享受到的魅力。 Your kiss still burns on my lips, everyday of mine is so beautiful. 你的吻还在我的唇上发烫，从此我的日子变得如此美丽。 L it needs no talk. 相爱的心息息相通，无需用言语倾诉。 Love me little and love me long. 不求情意绵绵，但求天长地久。 First impression of you is most lasting. 对你最初的印象，久久难以忘怀。 When the words &I love you& were said by you for the first time, my world blossoms. 第一次听到你对我说&我爱你&，我的世界一瞬间鲜花绽开。 Tell me you are mine. I‘ll be yours through all the years, till the end of time. 请告诉我你是我的。岁岁年年，我都属于你，永远永远。 Love is a fire which burns unseen. 爱情是无形燃烧的火焰。 I feel happy at times we have had angry words but these have been kissed away. 我们生气争执时，爱的双唇把它们吻得无影无踪，我的心也顿觉甜蜜。 You cannot appreciate happiness unless you have known sadness too. 不知道什么是忧伤，就不会真正感激幸福。 But if the while I think on thee, dear friend, all losses are restored, and sorrows end. 只要我一想起你，亲爱的人，所有的失落和遗憾烟消云散.
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And number fiv(来源：淘豆网[/p-4777034.html])e: I wish I'd lived a life true to mydreams, instead of what others expected of me.第一位:我希望我工作没有那么卖力。第二位:我希望我和我的朋友们一直保持联系。第三位:我希望我能让自己过得跟快乐些。第四位:我希望我曾鼓励过我做真正的自己。第五位: 我希望我曾为我的梦想而活, 而不是按照别人的要求苟活。Now, as far as I know, no one ever told one of the hospice workers, I wish I'd spent moretime playing video games, but when I hear these top five regrets of the dying, I can't helpbut hear five deep human cravings that games actually help us fulfill(来源：淘豆网[/p-4777034.html]).现在,据我所知,没有一个人告诉善终医院的工作人员, 我希望我曾花多一点的时间打电子游戏, 但当我听到这五个说得最多的临终遗憾时候, 我真的帮不上什么忙,而只能听听人类内心深处的渴望, 游戏其实能帮助我们活得充实。For example, I wish I hadn't worked so hard. For many people, this means, I wish I'd spentmore time with my family, with my kids when they were growing up. Well, we know thatplaying games together has tremendous family benefits. A recent study from BrighamYoung University School of Family life reported that parents who spend more time playingvideo games with their kids have much stronger real-life relationships with them.例如这句,我希望我工作没有那么卖力。对许多人来说,这意味着,我希望我曾经花跟多的时间, 和我的家人在一起,陪伴我的孩子长大。很好,我们知道一起打游戏有极好的,家庭益处。伯明翰杨大学最近的研一个, 关于学校的家庭生活研究报告指出, 多花时间和孩子们打游戏的家长们, 和孩子们在现实生活中的关系更紧密。I wish I'd stayed in touch with my friends. Well, hundreds of millions of people use socialgames like FarmVille or Words With Friends to stay in daily contact with real-life friendsand family. A recent study from [University of Michigan] showed that these games areincredibly powerful relationship-management tools. They help us stay connected withpeople in our work that we would otherwise grow distant from, if we weren'tplaying games together.我希望我和我的朋友们一直保持联系。是呢,成千上万的人们, 借助社交的游戏像Farmville 或者 Words,在现实生活中和朋友们去保持每天的联系。一个最近的 Michigan大学的研究表明, 这些游戏是难以置信的有力的, 人际交往工具。它们帮助我们保持和人际圈里的人一直联系。我们就渐渐疏远了, 如果我们不一起打游戏的话。I wish I'd let myself be happier. Well, here I can't help but think of the groundbreakingclinical trials recently conducted at East Carolina University that showed that onlinegames can outperform pharmaceuticals for treating clinical anxiety and depression. Just30 minutes of online game play a day was enough to create dramatic boosts in mood andlong-term increases in happiness.我希望我能让自己过得跟快乐些, 的确,我在这里还是帮不上忙但是想想近来被东卡罗来纳州立大学, 进行的一些有突破的临床试验表明, 网络游戏可以更有效地超过, 药物对焦虑和忧郁症的临床治疗。只需要每天花 30 分钟打网络游戏, 就足够能戏剧性的鼓励激情, 和长期增加和享受快乐。I wish I'd had the courage to express my true self. Well, avatars are a way to express ourtrue selves, our most heroic, idealized version of who we might e. You can see thatin this alter ego portrait by Robbie Cooper of a gamer with his avatar. And StanfordUniversity has been doing research for five years now to document how playing a gamewith an idealized avatar changes how we think and act in real life, making us morecourageous, more ambitious, mitted to our goals.我希望我曾鼓励过我做真正的自己。对的,虚拟人物是一个能真正表现我们自己的方式,我们可以变成我们最英雄,最理想化的版本。你们可以从这个游戏玩家 Robbie Copper 的自我意识的画像, 和神的化身中看出。并且斯坦福大学以后做了五年的教学研究, 去记录和一个理想化的化身打游戏怎么能, 使得我们的想法和行为在现实生活中改变。可以让我们变得更大胆,更有抱负, 更能坚持我们的目标。I wish I'd led a life true to my dreams, and not what others expected of me. Are gamesdoing this yet? I'm not sure, so I've left a question mark, a Super Mario question mark.And we're going e back to this one.我希望我曾为我的梦想而活, 而不是按照别人的要求苟活。玩游戏已经帮上忙了吗?我不确定, 所以我先留一个问号,一个很大的马赛克问号。我们一会再回来解决这个问题。But in the mean time, perhaps you're wondering, who is this game designer to be talkingto us about deathbed regrets? And it's true, I've never worked in a hospice, I've neverbeen on my deathbed. But recently I did spend three months in bed, wanting to die. Reallywanting to die.但以此同时,你可能会想, 这个游戏设计家有权威跟我们谈论, 那些临终遗憾嘛? 其实真的,我从来没有在善终医院工作过, 我也从来没有躺在临终床上过。但是,最近我真的有花了 3 个月的时间在床上,渴望着死亡。真的渴望着死亡的到来。Now let me tell you that story. It started two years ago, when I hit my head and got aconcussion. Now the concussion didn't heal properly, and after 30 days I was left withsymptoms like nonstop headaches, nausea, vertigo, memory loss, mental fog. My doctortold me that in order to heal my brain, I had to rest it. So I had to avoid everything thattriggered my symptoms. For me that meant no reading, no writing, no video games, nowork or email, no running, no alcohol, no caffeine. In other words -- and I think you seewhere this is going -- no reason to live.现在让我告诉你们那个故事吧。这得从两年前说起,当我头被撞后我得了脑震荡。直到现在,脑震荡还没有痊愈。在那之后的 30 天后,后遗症是不停的头痛, 恶心,眩晕,失忆,精神模糊。我的医生告诉我为了使我的大脑痊愈, 我不得不让它休息。所以,我不得不避免接触可以导致那些后遗症在的事。对我来着意味着,不看书,不写东西,不打电子游戏, 不能工作和写邮件,不可以跑步,不能喝酒,不可以吃有咖啡因的东西。换句话说,你应该知道我将要到了什么境地了--, 再没有理由继续活下去。Of course it's meant to be funny, but in all seriousness, suicidal ideation is monwith traumatic brain injuries. It happens to one in three, and it happened to me. My brainstarted telling me, Jane, you want to die. It said, you're never going to get better. It said,the pain will never end.当然,这听起来有点好笑, 但是老实说, 自杀的想法是十分的普偏的被, 大脑受伤后的精神创伤影响着的。三个当中有一个中招,我就是其中一个。我的大脑告诉我,Jane, 你想死。说,你将再也好不起来了。还说,疼痛恶魔会一直纠缠你不放。And these voices became so persistent and so persuasive that I started to legitimatelyfear for my life, which is the time that I said to myself after 34 days -- and I will never forgetthis moment -- I said, I am either going to kill myself or I'm going to turn this into a game.这些话开始持续不停,并且越来越有说服力, 我开始很合理地对生命有了恐惧, 在 34 天之后那时我对自己说-, 我一直都忘记不了当时的情形-, 我说,我要么自杀, 要么就就把它变成一场游戏。Now, why a game? I knew from researching the psychology of games for more than adecade that when we play a game -- and this is in the scientific literature -- we tackletough challenges with more creativity, more determination, more optimism, and we'remore likely to reach out to others for help. And I wanted to bring these gamer traits to myreal-life challenge, so I created a role-playing recovery game called Jane the ConcussionSlayer.就现在而言,为什么是游戏? 我知道打游戏心里学的研究已经有 10 多年了, 这是个科学的话题,当我们打游戏时候, 我们用更多的的创作力, 毅力和积极的心态去战胜棘手的困难。我们会更可能去从别人那里找援助。我想把我的这些好的游戏品质带到现实的困境中。于是我设计了一个树立榜样康复游戏, 叫 Jane 脑震荡杀手。Now this became my new secret identity, and the first thing I did as a slayer was call mytwin sister -- I have an identical twin sister named Kelly -- and tell her, I'm playing a gameto heal my brain, and I want you to play with me. This was an easier way to ask for help.现在这个游戏变成了我的新的秘密身份。当时我当杀手的第一件事, 是打电话给我的孪生姐妹,我的双胞胎姐妹叫 Kelly-, 告诉她,我现我要通过打游戏来促使大脑恢复, 我想你你一起打。这是一个最简单的方法去要求帮忙。She became my first ally in the game, my husband Kiyash joined next, and together weidentified and battled the bad guys. Now this was anything that could trigger my symptomsand therefore slow down the healing process, things like bright lights and crowded spaces.We also collected and activated power-ups. This was anything I could do on even myworst day to feel just a little bit good, just a little bit productive. Things like cuddling my dogfor 10 minutes, or getting out of bed and walking around the block just once.她成我在游戏里的一个盟友。我的老公 Kiyash 后来也加入了我们, 我们一起识别坏家伙并和他们决斗。这样做好像是会导致我的病症发作的, 痊愈的进展也会变慢, 有些东西,像是强光和狭小的空间。我们也收集和激活能量。这些都是在我最糟糕的日子里我所能做到的, 能让我感觉一点点好起来。有一点小小的成绩。比如,抱我的狗狗 10 分钟, 从床上爬起来,绕着一个街区走一圈。Now the game was that simple: Adopt a secret identity, recruit your allies, battle the badguys, activate the power-ups. But even with a game so simple, within just a couple days ofstarting to play, that fog of depression and anxiety went away. It just vanished. It felt like amiracle. Now it wasn't a miracle cure for the headaches or the cognitive symptoms. Thatlasted for more than a year, and it was the hardest year of my life by far. But even when Istill had the symptoms, even while I was still in pain, I stopped suffering.现在看来那个游戏真的很简单: 选择一个神秘的身份,招募你的盟友, 和坏家伙斗争,并激活能量。即使就是这么一个简单的游戏, 就在我开始玩游戏后的一两天内, 忧郁的恍惚,和烦躁不见了。它消失得无影无踪。感觉就像奇迹发生了。现在看起来这并不是一个对于头痛, 或是认知病症的奇迹疗法。就这样持续了一年多, 那时到是我这辈子最艰难的一年。但是即使我是觉得不舒服, 即使疼痛还在,我却没有那么痛苦了。Now what happened next with the game surprised me. I put up some blog posts andvideos online, explaining how to play. But not everybody has a concussion, obviously, noteveryone wants to be &the slayer,& so I renamed the game SuperBetter.游戏之后的收获使我很惊讶。我写了怎么玩游戏的博客, 并上传了游戏到网上。显然,并不是每个人都曾有过脑震荡, 也不是每个人都想变成“杀手”, 现在我从新命名了游戏叫SuperBetter。And soon I started hearing from people all over the world who were adopting their ownsecret identity, recruiting their own allies, and they were getting &super better& facingchallenges like cancer and chronic pain, depression and Crohn's disease. Even peoplewere playing it for terminal diagnoses like ALS. And I could tell from their messages andtheir videos that the game was helping them in the same ways that it helped me. Theytalked about feeling stronger and braver. They talked about feeling better understood bytheir friends and family. And they even talked about feeling happier, even though theywere in pain, even though they were tackling the toughest challenge of their lives.在此之后我开始得到从世界各地来的反馈, 他们开始选择他们自己秘密身份, 招募他们自己的盟友,他们开始变得”极了不起的棒“在, 面对挑战例如癌症,慢性疼痛, 忧郁和克罗恩病。即使得了绝症像 ALS 的人也在玩这个游戏。 ALS(肌萎缩侧索硬化症) 我能从他们留言和录像中看得出来, 游戏像减轻我的痛苦一样, 减轻着他们的痛苦。他们说他们感到更变强大,更勇敢了。他们说他们感觉到更容易被他们的家人和朋友理解。他们也谈到他们感觉到更加的快乐幸福, 即使他们的疼痛还在,即使他们应对, 着他们生命中最艰难的挑战。Now at the time, I'm thinking to myself, what is going on here? I mean, how could a gameso trivial intervene so powerfully in such serious, and in some cases life-and-death,circumstances? I mean, if it hadn't worked for me, there's no way I would have believed itwas possible. Well, it turns out there's some science here too. Some people get strongerand happier after a traumatic event. And that's what was happening to us.那时,我思索着,到底发生了什么? 我的意思是,游戏怎么可以如此有威力当它细微的介入, 到比较严重,和生死攸关情形中时候中? 我的意思是,如果它对我不起作用, 打死我也不信它真的有用。但其实这也是有科学依据的。有的人们变得更强壮和快乐在经历过精神创伤这后。这正是我们亲生经历着的。The game was helping us experience what scientists call post-traumatic growth, which isnot something we usually hear about. We usually hear about post-traumatic stressdisorder. But scientists now know that a traumatic event doesn't doom us to sufferindefinitely. Instead, we can use it as a springboard to unleash our best qualities and leadhappier lives.游戏使我们体验着, 被科学家称之为创伤后精神再生, 这不是一个我们常能听到的说法。我们经常能听到“创伤后压力心理障碍症”。但现在科学家发现精神重创事件并不, 注定会给我们无休止的痛苦。相反,我们能用它做为跳板, 去发掘我们最大的潜力从而有个更快乐的人生。Here are the top five things that people with post-traumatic growth say: My priorities havechanged. I'm not afraid to do what makes me happy. I feel closer to my friends and family.I understand myself better. I know who I really am now. I have a new sense of meaningand purpose in my life. I'm better able to focus on my goals and dreams.这是排在前五位的, 被创伤后精神再生的人们说过的话: 我做事情的优先级改变了。我再也不害怕去做那些能让我开心的事了。我感觉到我和我的家人和朋友们的关系更紧密了。我能更好的了解我自己。我知道真正的自己了。我对生活的意义有了新的定义。我现在更能专注于我的目标和理想了。Now, does this sound familiar? It should, because the top five traits of post-traumaticgrowth are essentially the direct opposite of the top five regrets of the dying. Now this isinteresting, right? It seems that somehow, a traumatic event can unlock our ability to leada life with fewer regrets.现在听起来这些有点熟悉么吗? 应该的,因为这五大创伤后精神再生的特质, 正好基本上和五大临终遗憾是相反的。现在看来很有趣,不是吗? 看起来在某种程度上,一次精神重创能开启我们的能力, 去成就一个遗憾相对少些的人生。But how does it work? How do you get from trauma to growth? Or better yet, is there away to get all the benefits of post-traumatic growth without the trauma, without having tohit your head in the first place? That would be good, right?但是这到底是什么样的一个过程? 你怎么样能从创伤中再生? 更积极一点,有没有一种方法可以从获得, 创伤后精神再生的这些好处但不经历外伤, 你的头也没有被重击过? 这听起来很好,不是么?I wanted to understand the phenomenon better, so I devoured the scientific literature, andhere's what I learned. There are four kinds of strength, or resilience, that contribute topost-traumatic growth, and there are scientifically validated activities that you can doevery day to build up these four kinds of resilience, and you don't need a trauma to do it.我想去更好地了解这个现象, 于是我认真地阅读科学的文章,下面是我所了解到的, 存在着四种意志力或适应力, 都起源于创伤后精神再生, 有一些经过科学验证的活动, 你们可以每天做去加强这四类意志力, 并且你不需要通过受创来实现,Now, I could tell you what these four types of strength are, but I'd rather you experiencethem firsthand. I'd rather we all start building them up together right now. So here's whatwe're going to do. We're going to play a quick game together. This is where you earnthose seven and a half minutes of bonus life that I promised you earlier. All you have to dois plete the first four SuperBetter quests. And I feel like you can do it. Ihave confidence in you.现在我可以直接告诉你这是四种意志力是什么, 但我更想和你们一起实践, 我更想和你们一起开始去加强它们, 所以这是我们接下来要做的, 我们要一起很快地做一个游戏, 这样你就可以得到我刚才许诺过你们的, 那七分半钟的额外寿命, 你唯一需要做的就是成功地完成, 最开始的四个“超级棒”任务, 我觉得你们可以做到,我对你们有信心,So, everybody ready? This is your first quest. Here we go. Pick one: Stand up and takethree steps, or make your hands into fists, raise them over your head as high as you canfor five seconds. Go! All right, I like the people doing both. You are overachievers. Verygood. (Laughter)怎么样,每个人都准备好了吗?第一个任务来了。选择一项做:站起来并走三步, 或者握起拳头,把它们高高地举过头顶, 保持 5 秒钟。开始! 太棒了,我喜欢两项都做了的人你们是超预期的成功者, 非常棒(笑声)Well done, everyone. Now that is worth plus-one physical resilience, which means thatyour body can withstand more stress and heal itself faster. Now we know from theresearch that the number one thing you can do to boost your physical resilience is to notsit still. That's all it takes. Every single second that you are not sitting still, you are activelyimproving the health of your heart, and your lungs and brains.每个人做得都很好。这是给身体意志力上加分, 意味着你们的身体能, 承受更大的压力和自愈得更快。现在我们知道研究表明能, 增强身体意志力的最好方法是不要坐着不动。就这么多, 在你移动地每一秒钟里, 你很积极得改善你的心脏, 你的肺和大脑的健康,Everybody ready for your next quest? I want you to snap your fingers exactly 50 times, orcount backwards from 100 by seven, like this: 100, 93 ... Go!每个人都准备好下一个任务了吗? 我想你们打 50 次的响指,或者从 100 开始每隔七位数倒数,100,93......, 开始!(Snapping)(全场打响指)Don't give up.不要放弃哦!(Snapping)(全场继续打响指)Don't let the people counting down from 100 interfere with your counting to 50.不要让数 100 的人, 扰乱你已经数到的 50,(Laughter)(笑声)Nice. Wow. That's the first time I've ever seen that. Bonus physical resilience. Well done,everyone. Now that's worth plus-one mental resilience, which means you have moremental focus, more discipline, determination and willpower. We know from the scientificresearch that willpower actually works like a muscle. It gets stronger the more youexercise it. So tackling a tiny challenge without giving up, even one as absurd as snappingyour fingers exactly 50 times or counting backwards from 100 by seven is actually ascientifically validated way to boost your willpower.很好!哇塞!我第一次看到这样的场面, 又给身体意志力加分了。每个人都干得很好! 这是给大脑意志力上加分的, 这意味着你的精力更集中,自制力更强, 更有决心,和毅力,科学研究告诉我们毅力, 实际就像一块肌肉, 你越练习它,它就越强壮, 所以为战胜一个小的挑战而坚持到底, 即使那个挑战有点好笑,比如打 50 下的响指, 或者从 100 开始每隔 7 位数倒数, 这都是有科学依据的可以增强你的毅力,So good job. Quest number three. Pick one: Now because of the room we're in, fate'sreally determined this for you, but here are the two options. If you're inside, find a windowand look out of it. If you're outside, find a window and look in. Or do a quick oogle image search for &baby [your favorite animal.]&干得不错!我们来开始第三个任务, 任选一项:因为我们都在一个大厅里, 这使得我们没选择余地,但这两个选项是, 如果你在房子里,选一个窗户向外看, 如果你在户外,选一个窗户望里看,或者快速地看一下 Youtube 或者 Google 搜素,“宝宝【你最喜爱的动物】”,Now, you could do this on your phones, or you could just shout out some baby animals,I'm going to find some and put them on the screen for us. So, what do we want to see?Sloth, giraffe, elephant, snake. Okay, let's see what we got. Baby dolphin and baby llamas.Everybody look. Got that? Okay, one more. Baby elephant. We're clapping for that? That'samazing.现在,你可以在你的手机找, 或者你就直接大声说出几个动物宝宝, 我将找几个把它们放在屏幕上, 好的,我们想看什么? 树懒,长颈鹿,大象,蛇。好的,看看我们有啥! 海豚宝宝和美洲驼宝宝。大家看看, 看到了么? 很好,再加一个,大象宝宝, 我们为他们鼓掌吧? 太神奇!All right, now what we're just feeling there is plus-one emotional resilience, which meansyou have the ability to provoke powerful, positive emotions like curiosity or love, which wefeel when we look at baby animals, when you need them most.太好了,我们现在正在感受到的, 是给情绪意志力加分的事, 这意味着你有能力去激发,强大而积极的感情例如好奇心和爱, 这是当我们看到动物宝宝时感受到的, 是我们最需要他们的时候,And here's a secret from the scientific literature for you. If you can manage to experiencethree positive emotions for every one negative emotion over the course of an hour, a day,a week, you dramatically improve your health and your ability to essfully tackle anyproblem you're facing. And this is called the three-to-one positive emotion ratio. It's myfavorite SuperBetter trick, so keep it up.我现在告诉你们一个科幻文学中的秘密, 如果你能尽力去经历这三种乐观的情感, 去对待一个负面的情感在一个小时里, 一天之中,一个星期里,你会急剧地提高, 你面对任何困难时候, 的健康和对付难题的能力, 这就叫做三比一积极情感比例, 这是我最喜欢的‘非常棒’小技巧,所以我们继续,All right, pick one, last quest: Shake someone's hand for six seconds, or send someone aquick thank you by text, email, Facebook or Twitter. Go!很好,选一个,最后一个使命: 和任何一个人握手保持 6 秒, 或者说一声谢谢你, 通过短信,邮件,Facebook 或者 Twitter。开始!,(Chatting)(交流中)Looking good, looking good. Nice, nice. Keep it up. I love it! All right, everybody, that isplus-one social resilience, which means you actually get more strength from your friends,your neighbors, your family, munity. Now, a great way to boost social resilienceis gratitude. Touch is even better.看起来很好,看起来很好! 太棒了!太棒了! 不要放弃,我很喜欢! 很好,每个人,这在社交意志力上又加了一份, 这意味着你真实地得到了更多的力量从你们朋友, 你们的邻居,你们的家人,你们的生活圈子里, 现在看来,一个最好的方式去提高你们社交的意志力是感激, 接触会更好一点,Here's one more secret for you: Shaking someone's hand for six seconds dramaticallyraises the level of oxytocin in your bloodstream, now that's the trust hormone. That meansthat all of you who just shook hands are biochemically primed to like and want to helpeach other. This will linger during the break, so take advantage of workingopportunities.还告诉你多一个小秘密: 和另个人握手长达 6 秒钟, 会戏剧性的提高催产素在血液中的水平, 它是信任的荷尔蒙激素, 这意味着刚刚握过手的所以人, 从生物化学家角度上看很大程度上喜欢和想去相互帮助对方, 这一切休息的时候会一直持续, 所以,好好利用这些社交的机会,(Laughter)(笑声)Okay, well you have pleted your four quests, so let's see if I'pleted my mission to give you seven and a half minutes of bonus life.And here's where I get to share one more little bit of science with you. It turns out thatpeople who regularly boost these four types of resilience -- physical, mental, emotionaland social -- live 10 years longer than everyone else. So this is true. If you are regularlyachieving the three-to-one positive emotion ratio, if you are never sitting still for more thanan hour at a time, if you are reaching out to one person you care about every single day, ifyou are tackling tiny goals to boost your willpower, you will live 10 years longer thaneveryone else, and here's where that math I showed you es in.好的,你们已经成功地完成你们的四个使命,所以现在看看我是否也成功完成我的使命,延长你们了七分半钟的寿命, 现在我还得和你们一起分享一点点科学, 最终那些经常, 增强身体,智力,感情和与人交往, 这四类意志力的人, 将会比一般人多活 10 年, 这是真的, 如果你经常达到三比一, 积极情感的比例, 如果你从来不会坐着不动超过一个小时,如果你每天都主动联系一个你关心的人,如果你通过实现你的小目标去增强你们毅力,你将会比一般人多活 10 年, 现在我们看看刚才我给你看的算术是怎么得来的,So, the average life expectancy in the U.S. and the U.K. is 78.1 years, but we know frommore than 1,000 peer-reviewed scientific studies that you can add 10 years of life to thatby boosting your four types of resilience. So every single year that you are boosting yourfour types of resilience, you're actually earning .128 more years of life or 46 more days oflife, or 67,298 more minutes of life, which means every single day, you are earning 184minutes of life, or every single hour that you are boosting your four types of resilience, likewe just did together, you are earning 7. more minutes of life.美国,和英国的平均年龄是 78.1 岁, 但我们从 1000 个同龄人的研究中看出, 你可以通过增强这, 4 种意志力去延寿 10 年。这么说来每一年你, 增强这 4 钟意志力, 你实际延长了你一年中寿命的 0.128 年, 或者说一年中寿命的 46 天,或者 67,298 个小时, 这意味这每天你要多活 184 分钟, 或者每一个小时里你增强你这四种意志力后, 正如我们刚才一起做的,你挣了你生命中, 多出来的 7. 分钟,Congratulations, those seven and a half minutes are all yours. You totally earned them.恭喜了,这额外的七分半钟, 全是你们的了。真的是你们应得的,(Applause)(掌声)Yeah! Awesome. Wait, wait, wait. You still have your special mission, your secret mission.How are you going to spend these seven and a half minutes of bonus life?是的!太棒了! 等等,等等,等等! 你的特殊使命还在, 你秘密的任务, 你将要怎么样花掉你生命中多出来, 的七分半钟?Well, here's my suggestion. These seven and a half bonus minutes are kind of like genie'swishes. You can use your first wish to wish for a million more wishes. Pretty clever, right?So, if you spend these seven and a half minutes today doing something that makes you播放器加载中，请稍候...
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