大学该做的事！！！ 无论你现在是大几,无论你多么不喜欢你的专业,无论你对于大学是多么的绝望,无论如何 请朋友们好好看完这篇文章
无论你现在是大几无论你对于大学是多么的绝望无论你多么不喜欢你的专业无论如何 请朋友们好好看完这篇文章我不能保证你能从此收获多少但是我保证每一位认真看完的朋友会受益于整个大学生活他会教你少走弯路 少走的弯路与其他迷惑的同学相比 你就是走了捷径无论现在多么浮躁 静下心来 读完他我保证 你的大学生活从此 焕然一新所有的想法都要去行动！唯有行动方可帮你成功！以此 自勉 同勉
大一到大三， 做好五件大事大四的简历， 实际上不是用文字编写出来的， 而是靠大一到大三的一点一滴的行动书写出来的。一份给人留下深刻印象的简历， 来自于你从大一到大三所忙碌的五件大事： 学术、 技能、 社团、 实习、 考证。本节围绕此五件大事展开。
一、 学术： 拿什么证明你的&学习力&知名的招聘单位， 一般会把学术成绩当作一个重要的筛选标准， 以下这个问题在著名外企的网络申请表中几乎是一个必问的问题：Please indicate your academic standing during each period of education that applies to you. Top 10% of students? Top 25% of students? Lower half of students? （你的学习成绩排名第几？综合排名前10%， 25%还是中等偏下？）招聘单位为什么这么重视你的成绩？原因有如下几个方面：（1） 成绩证明了你的&学习力&。学习力， 与领导力、 创造力等重要素质一样， 是任何大公司都极其看重的员工素质。 著名的西门子公司就把&学习力&列为应届毕业生必须具备的九种职场素质之首（学习能力、 沟通能力、 关注客户的能力、 结果导向能力、 战略能力、 指导和帮助下属的能力、 环境感应能力、 动手能力、 团队能力）。（2） 成绩证明了你的竞争力。成绩优秀的学生素质更高， 这个规律至少在90%的情况下是正确的。（3） 成绩证明了你的&上进心&。如果在学习中没有争上游的心态， 你怎么可能在职场争上游？（4） 成绩证明了你的责任心。学生的天职就是学习， 如果你现在就不在乎自己的学习天职， 你怎么可能在未来在乎自己的工作天职？&我要发言！&当我在课堂上讲到此点时， 总有学生举手打断， 或愤怒， 或无奈， 或丧气：愤怒女孩： 我是华南理工大学的， 高分子专业， 我不喜欢我的专业， 我恨死它了， 怎么可能学得好呢？难道外企不知道&高分低能&这个现象吗？（她的逻辑是： 我不喜欢高分子， 所以我没有拿&高分&， 错不在我呀！）无奈女孩： 我是中山大学的， CGA会计专业， 我在班里成绩是中等， 所以自然拿不到什么奖学金&& 我应聘四大有希望吗？丧气男孩： 我也是中山大学的， 学的是计算机， 我大一大二时因为谈恋爱， 一下子搞了两门不及格。等到大三发现快要找工作了， 才知道必须把成绩单弄得好看一点， 所以拼命学， 还好得了个一等奖学金。可是， 前天建设银行招聘， 招聘方一看我有两门不及格， 根本就不收我的简历。我怎么办呢&&笔者点评：To愤怒女孩： 我的学生至少50%对所学专业&痛并恨着&。因为不喜欢， 所以成绩不好， 合理！问题在于： 你没有学习这门专业， 那么你&自选兴趣专业&是什么？你是否在你感兴趣的领域里很&专&？如果你在另外一个领域颇有心得和成绩， 那也充分证明了你非常强的&学习力&， 尤其是你的自学能力！你说你喜欢市场营销， 好， 如何证明？选修过哪些课程？是否参与过新东方学校或者别的公司市场部举办的&金点子创意大赛&？是否参与过企业到校园举办的市场宣传？To无奈女孩： 谁说你不够强？能考上中山大学证明了你的&学习力&很强， 在四大非常中意的CGA（Chartered General Accountants中英文授课的会计专业）班能够拿到中等成绩再次证明了你的&学习力&！ 在最优秀的
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俞敏洪：大学生该如何准备就业
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　　我通常不鼓励大学生在本科的时候就开始创业，除非你的创业不用花太多的钱，或者有别人不可模仿的专利。为什么呢？因为创业的背后总有创业者的一个信念，那就是想成功。而统计数据显示，大学生由于没有工作经验，欠缺与社会打交道的能力，所以直接创业成功的比例相当低。在大学生创业的企业中，大约只有5%能够生存下来，真正做成大器的连1%都不到。所以，我比较主张大学生毕业后先在能学到经验的机构工作上几年，使自己的个性和人际交往能力更加成熟，使自己的技术更加熟练，然后再去创业，这样成功的比例可能就高一点。我自己创业之前就曾在北大工作了七年，而且从北大出来以后还为别的培训机构工作了两年，之后才创立了新东方。当然，每个人的领域不一样，情况也有所不同。但总的来说，如果你想稳妥地创业，积累经验还是非常重要的。一个能够放下自己身价的人通常将来也能走得更远，因为心态决定了结果。就就业心态和就业准备而言，我觉得大学生应该做到以下四点。
　　第一，为大学四年划定阶段和目标。进入大学后的前两年是准备和储备阶段。由于之前高考太辛苦，让人变成了"非人"状态，所以在大学的一、二年级，你应该从心理上把自己还原成轻松状态，在把功课学得比较好的情况下，尽可能生活得轻松一点，把知识学得广泛一点，这是一个综合素质的准备阶段。真正的就业准备是从大学三年级开始。就找工作而言，三年级和四年级这两年要做的最重要的一件事是搞清楚你毕业以后找工作的主要方向是什么。
　　第二，增加通用技能的准备。所谓通用技能，就是指英语、电脑操作等技能，这是你到任何一个单位工作都必须用到的技能。
　　第三，积累实践经验。实践经验对于任何一份工作来说都是很重要的。美国大学生上大学期间一定要出去实践，而且不一定拿工资。你如果到新东方来实践，即便是管理一个月的教室，那也算是工作经验，至少你知道了工作是怎么回事。更重要的是，如果你真的干得很好，你走的时候老板会给你写一封推荐信，这对你未来找工作一定是有好处的。所以，在大学三、四年级寒暑假里，大学生一定要找机会去实习，在实践中累积经验。
　　第四，学会与人打交道。与人打交道就从与你的同学相处做起。与人打交道时，最重要的心态是分享心态。中国的一些独生子女比较自私，什么东西都要独享，跟别人从感情上到物质上的平等交往能力比较缺乏。我举个例子来说明什么叫平等交往和分享心态。比如，你有六个苹果，有两个处理这些苹果的选择。第一个选择是到树林里把这六个苹果全部吃完，然后再回宿舍，别人谁也不知道你有六个苹果。表面上看，你得到了全部六个苹果，但实际上你失去了用六个苹果跟别人去交换无穷资源的可能性。另外一个选择是你自己吃一个苹果，把另外五个带回宿舍，分给你宿舍里的其他五个同学。表面上看，你失去了五个苹果，但实际上你得到了五个同学的认可和好感，你们开始了感情交往和互相帮助，最后的结果是你换回来的无形资源比你五个苹果的有形价值要大出不知多少倍！这就是整体上的社会交往原则。你记住，这个原则将无往而不胜：在大学跟同学分享，到了单位跟同事分享，创业时跟合作伙伴分享。分享原则会使你成为最受欢迎的人，也自然会为你赢得更多的尊重和支持，最终助你走向成功。
　　最后再补充一点。在我个人看来，一个人要找到好工作需要具备两个要素：过硬的专业知识和综合素质。专业知识的获得相对简单，我主要来说说综合素质。在我心目中，有五种素质非常重要。第一是诚恳和诚信。这意味着你这个人不但要看上去可靠，而且行动上也可靠。第二是踏实。诚恳和诚信不意味着踏实，我发现很多大学生很诚恳，并且有诚信，但做事却很浮躁。要知道，任何时候，重任都不会交到浮躁的人手里。第三是沟通能力。一个人不但要有才能，还要有良好的沟通能力，这样才能与团队成员和谐相处。第四是创新能力。你得能够提出新思想、新主意，让大家感觉到你想到的东西有价值，而且别人都没想到，这样你的职位就会得以提升。最后一种素质是无私。为什么无私放在最后？因为我觉得每个人都有私心，关键是要把私心限制在大家可以接受的范围之内，同时最好通过利他的方式表现出来。
　　如果把上述这些时刻放在脑中，我相信你不仅会如愿就业，而且会在未来的事业道路上勇往直前，取得成功。
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Dear Daughter:亲爱的女儿：As we drove off from Columbia, I wanted to write a letter to you to tell you all that is on my mind.当我们开车驶出哥伦比亚大学的时候，我想写一封信给你，告诉你盘旋在我脑中的想法。First, I want to tell you how proud we are. Getting into Columbia is a real testament of what a great well-rounded student you are. Your academic, artistic, and social skills have truly blossomed in the last few years. Whether it is getting the highest grade in Calculus, completing your elegant fashion design, successfully selling your painted running shoes, or becoming one of the top orators in Model United Nations, you have become a talented and accomplished young woman. You should be as proud of yourself as we are.首先，我想告诉你我们为你感到特别骄傲。进入哥伦比亚大学证明你是一个全面发展的优秀学生，你的学业、艺术和社交技能最近都有卓越的表现，无论是你在微积分上得了最高分，完成自己典雅的时尚的设计，成功卖出绘制的跑鞋，还是在“模拟联合国”演说中成为表现最突出的人之一，你毫无疑问已经是一个多才多艺的女孩。你的父母为你感到骄傲，你也应该像我们一样为自己感到自豪。I will always remember the first moment I held you in my arms. I felt a tingling sensation that directly touched my heart. It was an intoxicating feeling I will always have. It must be that "father-daughter connection" which will bind us for life. I will always remember singing you lullaby while I rocked you to sleep. When I put you down, it was always with both relief (she finally fell asleep!) and regret (wishing I could hold you longer). And I will always remember taking you to the playground, and watching you having so much fun. You were so cute and adorable, and that is why everybody loved you so.我会永远记得第一次将你抱在臂弯的那一刻，一种新鲜激动的感觉瞬间触动了我的心，那是一种永远让我陶醉的感觉，就是那种将我们的一生都联结在一起的“父女情结”。我也常常想起我唱着催眠曲轻摇你入睡，当我把你放下的时候，常常觉得既解脱又惋惜，一方面我想，她终于睡着了!另一方面，我又多么希望自己可以多抱你一会儿。我还记得带你到运动场，看着你玩得那么开心，你是那样可爱，所有人都非常爱你。You have been a great kid ever since you were born, always quiet, empathetic, attentive, and well-mannered. You were three when we built our house. I remember you quietly followed us every weekend for more than ten hours a day to get building supplies. You put up with that boring period without a fuss, happily ate hamburgers every meal in the car, sang with Barney until you fell asleep. When you went to Sunday Chinese school, you studied hard even though it was no fun for you. I cannot believe how lucky we are as parents to have a daughter like you.你不但长得可爱，而且是个特别乖巧的孩子。你从不吵闹、为人着想，既听话又有礼貌。当你三岁我们建房子的时候，每个周末十多个小时你都静静地跟着我们去运建筑材料，三餐在车上吃着汉堡，唱着儿歌，唱累了就睡觉，一点都不娇气不抱怨。你去上周日的中文学习班时，尽管一点也不觉得有趣，却依然很努力。我们做父母的能有像你这样的女儿真的感到非常幸运。You have been an excellent elder sister. Even though you two had your share of fights, the last few years you have become best friends. Your sister loves you so much, and she loves to make you laugh. She looks up to you, and sees you as her role model. As you saw when we departed, she misses you so much. And I know that you miss her just as much. There is nothing like family, and other than your parents, your sister is the one person who you can trust and confide in. She will be the one to take care of you, and the one you must take care of. There is nothing we wish more than that your sisterhood will continue to bond as you grow older, and that you will take care of each other throughout your lives. For the next four years, do have a short video chat with her every few days, and do email her when you have a chance.你也是个很好的姐姐。虽然你们姐妹以前也会打架，但是长大后，你们真的成为了好朋友。妹妹很爱你，很喜欢逗你笑，她把你当成她的榜样看待。我们开车离开哥大后，她非常想你，我知道你也很想她。世界上最宝贵的就是家人。和父母一样，妹妹就是你最可以信任的人。随着年龄的增长，你们姐妹之间的情谊不变，你们互相照应，彼此关心，这就是我最希望见到的事情了。在你的大学四年，有空时你一定要常常跟妹妹视频聊聊天，写写电子邮件。College will be the most important years in your life. It is in college that you will truly discover what learning is about. You often question "what good is this course". I encourage you to be inquisitive, but I also want to tell you: "Education is what you have left after all that is taught is forgotten." What I mean by that is the materials taught isn't as important as you gaining the ability to learn a new subject, and the ability to analyze a new problem. That is really what learning in college is about – this will be the period where you go from teacher-taught to master-inspired, after which you must become self-learner. So do take each subject seriously, and even if what you learn isn't critical for your life, the skills of learning will be something you cherish forever.大学将是你人生最重要的时光，在大学里你会发现学习的真谛。你以前经常会问到 “这个课程有什么用”，这是个好问题，但是我希望你理解：“的真谛就是当你忘记一切所学到的东西之后所剩下的东西。”我的意思是，最重要的不是你学到的具体的知识，而是你学习新事物和解决新问题的能力。这才是大学学习的真正意义——这将是你从被动学习转向自主学习的阶段，之后你会变成一个很好的自学者。所以，即便你所学的不是生活里所急需的，也要认真看待大学里的每一门功课，就算学习的技能你会忘记，学习的能力是你将受用终身的。Do not fall into the trap of dogma. There is no single simple answer to any question. Remember during your high school debate class, I always asked you to take on the side that you don't believe in? I did that for a reason -- things rarely "black and white", and there are always many ways to look at a problem. You will become a better problem solver if you recognized that. This is called "critical thinking", and it is the most important thinking skill you need for your life. This also means you need to become tolerant and supportive of others. I will always remember when I went to my Ph.D. advisor and proposed a new thesis topic. He said "I don't agree with you, but I'll support you." After the years, I have learned this isn't just flexibility, it is encouragement of critical thinking, and an empowering style of leadership, and it has become a part of me. I hope it will become a part of you too.不要被教条所束缚，任何问题都没有一个唯一的简单的答案。还记得当我帮助你高中的辩论课程时，我总是让你站在你不认可的那一方来辩论吗?我这么做的理由就是希望你能够理解：看待一个问题不应该非黑即白，而是有很多方法和角度。当你意识到这点的时候，你就会成为一个很好的解决问题者。这就是“批判的思维”——你的一生都会需要的最重要的思考方式，这也意味着你还需要包容和支持不同于你的其他观点。我永远记得我去找我的博士导师提出了一个新论题，他告诉我：“我不同意你，但我支持你。”多年后，我认识到这不仅仅是包容，而是一种批判式思考，更是令人折服的领导风格，现在这也变成了我的一部分。我希望这也能成为你的一部分。Follow your passion in college. Take courses you think you will enjoy. Don't be trapped in what others think or say. Steve Jobs says when you are in college, your passion will create many dots, and later in your life you will connect them. In his great speech given at Stanford commencement, he gave the great example where he took calligraphy, and a decade later, it became the basis of the beautiful Macintosh fonts, which later ignited desktop publishing, and brought wonderful tools like Microsoft Word to our lives. His expedition into calligraphy was a dot, and the Macintosh became the connecting line. So don't worry too much about what job you will have, and don't be too utilitarian, and if you like Japanese or Korean, go for it, even if your dad thinks "it's not useful" : ) Enjoy picking your dots, and be assured one day you will find your calling, and connect a beautiful curve through the dots.在大学里你要追随自己的激情和兴趣，选你感兴趣的课程，不要困扰于别人怎么说或怎么想。史蒂夫•乔布斯曾经说过，在大学里你的热情会创造出很多点，在你随后的生命中你会把这些点串联起来。在他著名的斯坦福毕业典礼演讲中，他举了一个很好的例子：他在大学里修了看似毫无用处的书法，而十年后，这成了苹果Macintosh里漂亮字库的基础，而因为Macintosh有这么好的字库，才带来了桌面出版和今天的办公软件(例如微软Office)。他对书法的探索就是一个点，而苹果Macintosh把多个点联结成了一条线。所以不要太担心将来你要做什么样的工作，也不要太急功近利。假如你喜欢日语或韩语，就去学吧，即使你爸爸曾认为那没什么用：)尽兴地选择你的点吧，要有信念有一天机缘来临时，你会找到自己的人生使命，画出一条美丽的曲线。Do your best in classes, but don't let pressure get to you. Your mother and I have no expectations for your grades. If you graduate and learn something in your four years, we would feel happy. Your Columbia degree will take you far, even if you don't graduate with honors. So please don't give yourself pressure. During your last few months in high school, you were so happy because there was little pressure and college applications are finished. But in the past few weeks, we saw you are beginning to worry (did you know you bite your nails when you are nervous?). Please don't be worried. The only thing that matters is that you learned. The only metric you should use is that you tried. Grades are just silly letters that give the vain people something to brag, and the lazy people something to fear. You are too good to be either.在功课上要尽力，但不要给自己太多压力。你妈妈和我在成绩上对你没什么要求，只要你能顺利毕业并在这四年里学到了些东西，我们就会很高兴了。即便你毕业时没有获得优异的成绩，你的哥伦比亚学位也将带你走得很远。所以别给自己压力。在你高中生活的最后几个月，因为压力比较小，大学申请也结束了，你过得很开心，但是在最近的几个星期，你好像开始紧张起来。(你注意到你紧张时会咬指甲吗?)千万别担心，最重要的是你在学习，你需要的唯一衡量是你的努力程度。成绩只不过是虚荣的人用以吹嘘和慵懒的人所恐惧的无聊数字而已，而你既不虚荣也不慵懒。Most importantly, make friends and be happy. College friends are often the best in life, because during college you are closer to them physically than to your family. Also, going through independence and adulthood is a natural bonding experience. Pick a few friends and become really close to them – pick the ones who are genuine and sincere to you. Don't worry about their hobbies, grades, looks, or even personalities. You have developed some real friendships in high school in your last two years, so trust your instinct, and make new friends. You are a genuine and sincere person – anyone would enjoy being your friend, so be confident, outgoing, and pro-active. If you think you like someone, tell her. You have very little to lose. Give people the
don't stereotype and be forgiving. People are not perfect, so as long as they are genuine and sincere, trust them and be good to them. They will give back. This is my secret of success – that I am genuine with people and trust them (unless they do something to lose my trust). Some people tell me that occasionally I would be taken advantage of. They are right, but I can tell you that that loss is nothing compared to what I gained. In my last 18 years leading people, I have realized that only one thing matters – to gain the trust and respect of others, and to do so, you need to trust and respect others first. Whether it is for management, work, or friendship, this is something you should ponder.最重要的是在大学里你要交一些朋友，快乐生活。大学的朋友往往是生命中最好的朋友，因为在大学里你和朋友能够近距离交往。另外，在一块儿成长，一起独立，很自然地你们就会紧紧地系在一起，成为密友。你应该挑选一些真诚诚恳的朋友，跟他们亲近，别在乎他们的爱好、成绩、外表甚至性格。你在高中的最后两年已经交到了一些真正的朋友，所以尽可以相信自己的直觉，再交一些新朋友吧。你是一个真诚的人，任何人都会喜欢跟你做朋友的，所以要自信、外向、主动一点，如果你喜欢某人，就告诉她，就算她拒绝了，你也没有损失什么。以最大的善意去对人，不要有成见，要宽容。人无完人，只要他们很真诚，就信任他们，对他们友善。他们将给你相同的回报，这是我成功的秘密——我以诚待人，信任他人(除非他们做了失信于我的事)。有人告诉这样有时我会被占便宜，他们是对的，但是我可以告诉你：以诚待人让我得到的远远超过我失去的。在我做管理的18年里，我学到一件很重要的事——要想得到他人的信任和尊重，只有先去信任和尊重他人。无论是管理、工作、交友，这点都值得你参考。Do keep your high school friends, and stay connected to them, but do not use them as substitutes for college friendship, and do not spend too much time with them, because that would eat into your time to make new friends.要和你高中时代的朋友保持联系，但是不要用他们来取代大学的友谊，也不要把全部的时间都花在老朋友身上，因为那样你就会失去交新朋友的机会了。Start planning for your summers early – what would you like to do? Where would you like to live? What would you like to learn? What have you learned in college that might change your mind? I think your plan of studying fashion is good, and you should decide where you want to be, and get into the right courses. We of course hope you come back to Beijing, but you should go where you think is best for you.你还要早点开始规划你的暑假——你想做什么?你想呆在哪儿?你想学点什么?你在大学里学习是否会让你有新的打算?我觉得你学习艺术设计的计划很不错，你应该想好你该去哪儿学习相应的课程。我们当然希望你回到北京，但是最终的决定是你的。Whether it is summer-planning, or coursework planning, or picking a major, or managing your time, you should take control of your life. In the past, I have helped you quite a bit, whether it is in college application, designing your extracurricular activities, or picking the initial coursework. I will always be there for you, but the time has come for you to be in the driver's seat – this is your life, and you need to be in control. I will always remember the exhilarating feeling in my life – that I got to decide to skip kindergarten, that I got to decide to change to computer science major, that I got to decide to leave academia for Apple, that I got to decide to go to China, that I got to decide to go to Google, and most recently, that I got to decide to start my own business. Being able to decide means you get to live the life that you want to. Life is too short to live the life others do or others want you. Being in control feels great. Try it, and you'll love it!不管是暑假计划，功课规划，抑或是选专业，管理时间，你都应该负责你的人生。过去不管是申请学校、设计课外活动或者选择最初的课程，我都从旁帮助了你不少。以后，我仍然会一直站你身旁，但是现在是你自己掌舵的时候了。我常常记起我生命中那些令人振奋的时刻——在幼儿园决定跳级，决定转到计算机科学专业，决定离开学术界选择Apple，决定回中国，决定选择Google，乃至最近选择创办我的新公司。有能力进行选择意味着你会过上自己想要的生活。生命太短暂了，你不能过别人想要你过的生活。掌控自己的生命是很棒的感觉，试试吧，你会爱上它的!I told your mom I'm writing this letter, and asked what she wanted me to say. She thought and said: "just ask her to take care of herself." Simple but deeply caring – that is how your mother is, and that is why you love her so much. In this simple sentence is her hope that you will become independent in the way you take care of yourself – that you will remember to take your medicine, that you will get enough sleep, that you will have a balanced diet, that you will get some exercise, and that you will go see a doctor whenever you don't feel good. An ancient Chinese proverb says that the most important thing to be nice to your parents is to take care of yourself. This is because your parents love you so much, and that if you are well, they will have comfort. You will understand this one day when you become a mother. But in the meantime, please listen to your mother and take care of yourself.我告诉你妈妈我在写这封信，问她有什么想对你说的，她想了想，说“让她好好照顾自己”，很简单却饱含着真切的关心——这一向是你深爱的妈妈的特点。这短短的一句话，是她想提醒你很多事情，比如要记得自己按时吃药，好好睡觉，保持健康的饮食，适量运动，不舒服的时候要去看医生等等。中国有句古语，说“身体发肤，受之父母，不敢毁伤，孝之始也”。这句话的意思用比较新的方法诠释就是说：父母最爱的就是你，所以照顾好自己就是孝顺最好的方法。当你成为母亲的那天，你就会理解这些。在那天之前，听妈妈的，你一定要好好照顾自己。College is the four years where you have:•the greatest amount of free time大学是你自由时间最多的四年。•the first chance to be independent大学是你第一次学会独立的四年。•the most flexibility to change大学是可塑性最强的四年。•the lowest risk for making mistakes大学是犯错代价最低的四年。So please treasure your college years – make the best of your free time, become an independent thinker in control of your destiny, evolve yourself into a bi-cultural talent, be bold to experiment, learn and grow through your successes and challenges.所以，珍惜你的大学时光吧，好好利用你的空闲时间，成为掌握自己命运的独立思考者，发展自己的多元化才能，大胆地去尝试，通过不断的成功和挑战来学习和成长，成为融汇中西的人才。
When I faced the greatest challenge and opportunity in my life in 2005, you gave me a big hug and said "bonne chance", which means "good luck" and "good courage". Now I do the same for you. Bonne chance, my angel and princess. May Columbia become the happiest four years in your life, and may you blossom into just what you dream to be.当我在2005年面对人生最大的挑战时，你给了我大大的拥抱，还跟我说了一句法语“bonne chance”。这句话代表“祝你勇敢，祝你好运!”现在，我也想跟你说同样的话，bonne chance，我的天使和公主，希望哥伦比亚成为你一生中最快乐的四年，希望你成为你梦想成为的人!（来源公共号：小E每日英语）
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