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人称代词，表示所有关系的代词叫做。物主代词分为形容词性物主代词和两种。物主代词有和数的变化。第三人称的物主代词还有性的变化。代词的一类，如：我、你、他、她、它、我们、你们、他们。外文名PersonalPronoun解&&&&释人的称谓
古代汉语中有不少的人称代词，其功用也和一样，是用来代替人或的名称。有、、第三人称之分，还有己称、旁称和等。
，又叫。常用“吾”“我”“余”“予”等，还有帝王专称“朕”、“孤”“寡人”等字。通常都可译为“我”“我的”“我们”“我们的”。
，又叫对称。常用“尔”“汝”“女”“若”“乃”“而”等。通常译为“你”“你的”“你们”“你们的”。
第三人称，又叫他称。常用“彼”“其”“之”等字，它们既可以用来指人，又可以用来代事，其用法更为灵活，通常译为“他”“她”“他的”“他们”“他们的”等。
还有旁称，亦即称别人，常用“人”字，可译为“别人”“人家”。大多数代词具有名词和形容词的功能。英语中的代词，按其意义、特征及在句中的作用分为：人称代词、物主代词、、反身代词、、疑问代词、、连接代词和九种。
人称代词的变格形式第二人称 第三人称
：I/we/you/he/she/it/they
：me/us/you/him/her/it/them
形容性物主代词
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〖personalpronoun〗代词的一类，用于人的称谓。如：我、我们、你们、他、她们……
语法人称代词的变格形式
第一人称 第二人称 第三人称
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阳性 阴性 中性
1 ich du Sie er sie es
2 meiner deiner Ihrer seiner ihrer seiner
3 mir dir Ihnen ihm ihr ihm
4 mich dich Sie ihn sie es
复数 1 wir ihr Sie sie
2 unser euer Ihrer ihrer
3 uns euch Ihnen ihnen
4 uns euch Sie sie
注意：这里的第二格是人称代词，不是下面要说到的，一定要分清！
人称代词的句法功能：
Wir sind in die Stadtmitte gefahren.
Der gute Student bin ich.
Meine Freundin hat mich gestern besucht.
4- 第三格宾语
Ich gebe ihr ein Buch.
5- 第二格宾语
Sie machen das statt meiner.
他们替我做了这件事儿。
Wir werden uns Ihrer erinnern.
我们将会记起您。
这样的用法很罕见。
注意：第三人称代词单数：er,sie,es 及 复数 sie 可值代人或物以及其
它抽象概念等。此时，它们的性，数，格要与被值代的名词一致。人称代词分主/宾，只有八对要区分。
你（们）、它主/宾同一形，其余主/宾须分清。
谓语之前主格填，动/介之后宾格跟，
口语运用最灵活，表语也可用宾格。
人称代词并列现，注意顺序礼貌见，
二一、三一、二三一，第一人称最谦虚，
若把错误责任担，第一人称须当先。一、人称代词的宾格在句中作宾语，往往用在动词或介词后面。
例：1.Listen to me,Dad.
⒉Peter is sitting behind me.
⒊Let me got here now.
⒋Give me an orange,please.
二、you既是"你"或"你们"的主格，又是它们的宾格；her既是"她"的所有格，又是它的宾格。我们可以根据它　们在句子中的位置来判断它们属于主格、所有格还是宾格。
三、and是一个我们常用来连接两个词的连接词。它虽然与介词with有同样的意思，但它的前后可以是人称代词的主格，也可以是人称代词的宾格，而with只能跟人称代词的宾格。
如：You and I are going to school.
You are going to school with me.
四、人称代词在句中的作用
1）主格作主语。如：
I am Chinese.我是中国人。
2）宾格作宾语，放在及物动词或介词之后，有时还可以在口语中用作表语。如：
①I don't know her.我不认识她。（动词宾语）
②What's wrong with it?它怎么了？（介词宾语）
③-Open the door,please.
It's me.请开门，是我。（表语）
五、人称代词并列用法的排列顺序
1）单数人称代词并列作主语时，其顺序为：
第二人称-&；第三人称-&；第一人称
即：you and I;he/she/itandI;you,he/she/it and I
2）复数人称代词作主语时，其顺序为：
第一人称-&；第二人称-&；第三人称
即：we，you and they
用来表示某人或某物属于\"谁的\"的代词叫做物主代词。形容词性物主代词有：my（我的），your（你的、你们　的），our（我们的），his（他的），her（她的），its（它的），their（他们的）。形容词性物主代词具有形容词的特性，常放在名词前面作定语，表明该名词所表示的人或物是"谁的"。
⒈ 形容词性物主代词相当于形容词，在句中只能用作定语，后面必须跟名词。例如：
Is that your bike? 那是你的自行车吗?
⒉ 如果名词前用了形容词性物主代词，就不能再用冠词（a,an,the）、指示代词（this,that,these,those）等修饰词了。例如：
这是他的书桌。
误：This is his a desk.
正：This is his desk.
⒊ 与形容词一起修饰名词时，形容词性物主代词要放在形容词的前面。如：his English books他的英语书，their Chinese friends他们的中国朋友。
⒋ 汉语中经常会出现"我妈妈"，"你们老师"等这样的语言现象，虽然代词用的是"我"、"你们"，但实际意义仍是"我的"、"你们的"，所以在英译时，注意要用形容词性物主代词"my","your"。例如：
你妈妈在家吗?
误：Is you mother at home?
正：Is your mother at home?
⒌ it\'s与its读音相同，he\'s与his读音相似，但使用时需注意它们的区别（it's和he's分别是it is和he is的缩略形　式，但its 和his 却是形容词性物主代词）。例如：
It's a bird. Its name is Polly. 它是一只鸟。它的名字叫波利。
He's a student. His mother is a teacher. 他是一名学生。他妈妈是一位教师。人称代词的句子角色
1）人称代词的主格在句子中作主语或
例如：John waited a while but eventually he went home.
约翰等了一会儿，最后他回家了。
John hoped the passenger would be Mary and indeed it was she.
约翰希望那位乘客是玛丽，还真是她。
说明：在中，如果主句和主语相同，代词主语要用在从句中，名词主语用在主句中
例如：When he arrived,John went straight to the bank.
约翰一到就直接去银行了。
2）人称代词的宾格在句子中作宾语或宾语，但在口语中也能作主语补语，第一人称在省略句中，还可以作主语，例如：
I saw her with them,at least,I thought it was her.
我看到她和他们在一起，至少我认为是她。（her做宾语，them做，her做主语补语）
a. -- Who broke the vase?--谁打碎了花瓶？
b. -- Me.　--我。（me做主语补语= It's me.)
说明：在上面两例句中，her和me分别作主语补语。现代英语中多用宾格，在正式文体中这里应为she和I。
主宾格的替换
1）宾格代替主格a.在简短对话中，当人称代词单独使用或在not后，多用宾语。
---- I like English.　--我喜欢英语。
---- Me too.　--我也喜欢。
---- Have more wine?　--再来点酒喝吗?
---- Not me.　--我可不要了。
b.在表示比较的非正式的文体中，常用宾格代替主格。但如果比较的谓语保留，则主语只能用主格。
He is taller than I/me.
He is taller than I am.
2）主格代替宾格a.在介词but，except后，有时可用主格代替。
b.在电话用语中常用主格。
---- I wish to speak to Mary. --我想和玛丽通话。
---- This is she.　--我就是玛丽。
注意：在be或to be后的人称代词视其前面的名词或代词而定。
I thought it was she.　我以为是她。　（主格----主格）
I thought it to be her.　（宾格----宾格）
I was taken to be she.　我被当成了她。　（主格----主格）
They took me to be her.他们把我当成了她。　（宾格----宾格）在中，当主语是第三人称单数时，要用第三人称单数形式，即常在动词原形后加-s或-es
一、人称代词he,she,it是第三人称单数。
如：He likes watching TV. 他喜欢看电视。
She has lunch at twelve. 她十二点吃午餐。
It looks like a cat. 它看起来像只猫。
二、单个人名、地名或称呼作主语；是第三人称单数。
如：①Han Mei looks like her mother. 看起来像她的母亲。
②Beijing is in China. 北京在中国。
③Uncle Wang often makes cakes. 王叔叔经常做蛋糕。
三、单数可数名词或&this / that / the+单数可数名词&作主语时，是第三人称单数。
如：①A horse is a useful animal. 马是有用的动物。
②This book is yours. 这本书是你的。
③That car is red. 那辆小汽车是红色的。
④The cat is Lucy's. 这只猫是的。
四、someone,somebody,nobody,everything,something等及this,that作主语时，是第三人称单数。
如：①Everyone is here. 大家到齐了。
②There is something wrong with the watch. 这块手表有毛病。
③This is a pen. 这是一支钢笔。
④That is an eraser. 那是一块橡皮擦。
五、作主语时为第三人称单数。
如：①The milk is in the glass. 牛奶在玻璃杯里。
②The bread is very small. 那面包很小。
六、当数字或字母作主语时，看作第三人称单数。
如：①&6& is a lucky number. &6&是个吉利数字。
②&I& is a letter. &I&是个字母。人称代词和物主代词
第一人称单数
第二人称单数
第三人称单数
第一人称复数
第二人称复数
第三人称复数
him/her/it
他（她、它）们
形容词性物主代词
his/her/its
名词性物主代词
his/hers/its
他的/她的/它的
他（她、它）们的
主格：放句首。
宾格：放动词之后。
：后面加名词。
：后面不加名词。人称代词是用来表示人的代词，有单数和复数之分，有主格和宾格之分。人称代词的主格在句中作主语;人称代词的宾格在句中作宾语，是作动词或介词的宾语。
主格：I, we, you, he, she, it, they在句子中作主语[1]
宾格：me, us, you, him, her, it, them在句子中作宾语
He and I are in the same class. 我和他在同一个班级。
Can you see them in the street? 你能看见他们在街上吗?我们会认为人称代词是一个很简单的语法考点，高考是一般不会设题，或者认为，即使设题也不会有什么难度。其实这是我们一个认识的误区，请看看下面这道题：
To save class time,our teacher has _________ students do half of the exercises in class and complete the other half for our homework.
A. us B. we C. our D. ours
此题答案选A，你会认为这道题很容易吗？估计不少学生会做错。下面我们为同学们归纳几个人称代词的备考盲点，希望引起同学们的注意。忽略人称代词后接名词作同位语的用法
⒈ It’s necessary for ______ students to be constantly reminded of our shortcomings.
A. us B. we C. our D. ours
答案选A。students为代词us的同位语，us students的意思是“我们学生”，由于是用作介词for的宾语，所以要用宾格。全句意为：有必要让人经常给我们学生提醒我们的缺点。
⒉ The boss wants _________ girls to go to the airport to pick up the company’s guests.
A. you B. your C. yours D. yourself
答案选A。girls为代词you的同位语，you girls的意思是“你们女孩子”，由于是用作动词wants的宾语，所以要用宾语。全句意为：老板要你们女孩子去机场接公司的客人。忽略人称代词在口语中的特殊用法和固定表达
口语中表示“我也一样”时，可用me too；表示“我也一样不……”时，可用me either或me neither。如：
—I’d like to go back in here. 我想回到这里来。
—Me too. 我也想。
—I don’t like horror movies. 我不喜欢恐怖片。
—Me neither. 我也不喜欢。
—I don’t have any money right now. 我没有一分钱。
—Me either. 我也一样。
类似地，若要表示“我们也一样”，则可用us too。如：
—I’m glad it’s Friday. 我很高兴今天是星期五。
—Us too! 我们也高兴!
请看下面一道题，答案选A：
—I don’t feel like going out this evening.
—Me neither.
A. Me too B. Me also C. Me other D. Me neither.忽略人称代词与的细节区别
从意义上看，名词性物主代词相当于“形容词性物主代词+名词”，所以，同学们在分不清该用人称代词还是名词性物主代词时可以看看它是否可以根据上文分解成“形容词性物主代词+名词”。请看下面几道题：
⒈ —Whose telephone rang?
—_________.
A. Me was B. Me did C. Mine was D. Mine did
答案选D。其中的mine指my telephone，did指rang。
⒉ _________ a partnership based on mutual respect,trust and understanding.
A. They were B. They being C. Theirs was D. Theirs being
答案选C。其中的theirs相当于their partnership。句意为：他们的合作是建立在互相尊重、信任和理解基础上的。忽略人称代词与的区别
若同学们在一个考题中对于该用人称代词还是关系代词拿不定主意，则可以这样分析：若选关系代词，则它引导的一定是，那么它的前就肯定不可能有像and或but这样的并列，所以，若句子已经用了并列连词and或but，则不可能选用关系代词。如：
⒈ Last week,only two people came to look at the house,_________ wanted to buy it. (安徽卷）
A. none of them B. both of them C. none of whom D. neither of whom
答案选D。由于前面提到的是两个人，故后面只能用表两者的both或neither，据此可排除A和C。由于空格前用的是逗号，且没有连词，故只不能选B，而要选D，因为neither of whom为，用以修饰two people。
⒉ It is reported that two schools,_________ are being built in my hometown,will open next year.
A. they both B. which both C. both of them D. both of which
答案选D。both of which are being built in my hometown为非限制性定语从句，其中的which指代前面的two schools。
⑴ He wrote a lot of novels,many of _________ were translated into foreign languages.
A. it B. them C. which D. that
⑵ He wrote a lot of novels,and many of _________ were translated into foreign languages.
A. it B. them C. which D. that
这两个句子的不同之处在于，第二句多了一个并列连词and，所以第一句应选关系代词which，第二句应选人称代词them。
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am you she he 和 my your her his有什么区别快
am you she he 和 my your her his有什么区别快
前者为人称代词,我你他/她后者为物主代词,我的,你的,他/她的
........请参考名词性物主代词和形容词性物主代词的区别1.she is willing to share things with her friends.请问willing能换成happy 2.who would you choose as your best friend?请问 would 能换成will 3.what makes good friends ,Amy?what makes your friend so special?请问这两个句子有什么不同?_作业帮
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1.she is willing to share things with her friends.请问willing能换成happy 2.who would you choose as your best friend?请问 would 能换成will 3.what makes good friends ,Amy?what makes your friend so special?请问这两个句子有什么不同?
1.she is willing to share things with her friends.请问willing能换成happy 2.who would you choose as your best friend?请问 would 能换成will 3.what makes good friends ,Amy?what makes your friend so special?请问这两个句子有什么不同?另译前一句4..i don't think i played really badly at the beginning of the match.当 think 动词后接否定意的宾语从句时需将否定前移.那请问英语否定前移了,那汉语要怎样译呢?要否定宾语从句的谓语对吗?比如这一题,译成：我认为在比赛开始我不玩得真的坏.译时否定play,好像有点不顺.
1、可以换,但意思略有差别.willing和happy意思不同,前者意思是希望、想,后者是乐于、甘于.翻译后的意思可能差不多,但是在英语里面表达的情绪有一点差别.前者的意思是她非常希望能与朋友们分享事儿,后者的意思是她很乐于和朋友们分享.仔细体会一下.2、不能换.would表示的是过去的假设的,will是将来的.这句是一种假设,意思是你会选择谁做你做好的朋友呢?3、该怎样才能成为好朋友呢?/什么让你的朋友如此特殊?4、我不认为我在这场游戏的开始打的真的很烂.准大学生必读：李开复给女儿的一封信(双语)_新浪教育_新浪网
准大学生必读：李开复给女儿的一封信(双语)
李开复全家福
　　Dear Daughter:
　　亲爱的女儿：
　　As we drove off from Columbia, I wanted to write a letter to you to tell you all that is on my mind。
　　当我们开车驶出哥伦比亚大学的时候，我想写一封信给你，告诉你盘旋在我脑中的想法。
　　First, I want to tell you how proud we are.
Getting into Columbia is a real testament of what a great well-rounded student you are.
Your academic, artistic, and social skills have truly blossomed in the last few years.
Whether it is getting the highest grade in Calculus, completing your elegant fashion design, successfully selling your painted running shoes, or becoming one of the top orators in Model United Nations, you have become a talented and accomplished young woman.
You should be as proud of yourself as we are。
　　首先，我想告诉你我们为你感到特别骄傲。进入哥伦比亚大学证明你是一个全面发展的优秀学生，你的学业、艺术和社交技能最近都有卓越的表现，无论是你高中微积分第一名，时尚的设计，绘制的球鞋，还是在“模拟联合国”的演说，你毫无疑问已经是一个多才多艺的女孩。你的父母为你感到骄傲，你也应该像我们一样为自己感到自豪。
　　I will always remember the first moment I held you in my arms.
I felt a tingling sensation that directly touched my heart.
It was an intoxicating feeling I will always have.
It must be that “father-daughter connection” which will bind us for life.
I will always remember singing you lullaby while I rocked you to sleep.
When I put you down, it was always with both relief (she finally fell asleep!) and regret (wishing I could hold you longer).
And I will always remember taking you to the playground, and watching you having so much fun.
You were so cute and adorable, and that is why everybody loved you so。
　　我会永远记得第一次将你抱在臂弯的那一刻，一种新鲜激动的感觉瞬间触动了我的心，那是一种永远让我陶醉的感觉，就是那种将我们的一生都联结在一起的“父女情结”。我也常常想起我唱着催眠曲轻摇你入睡，当我把你放下的时候，常常觉得既解脱又惋惜，一方面我想，她终于睡着了！另一方面，我又多么希望自己可以多抱你一会儿。我还记得带你到运动场，看着你玩得那么开心，你是那样可爱，所有人都非常爱你。
　　You have been a great kid ever since you were born, always quiet, empathetic, attentive, and well-mannered.
You were three when we built our house.
I remember you quietly followed us every weekend for more than ten hours a day to get building supplies.
You put up with that boring period without a fuss, happily ate hamburgers every meal in the car, sang with Barney until you fell asleep.
When you went to Sunday Chinese school, you studied hard even though it was no fun for you.
I cannot believe how lucky we are as parents to have a daughter like you。
　　你不但长得可爱，而且是个特别乖巧的孩子。你从不吵闹、为人着想，既听话又有礼貌。当你三岁我们建房子的时候，每个周末十多个小时你都静静地跟着我们去运建筑材料，三餐在车上吃着汉堡，唱着儿歌，唱累了就睡觉，一点都不娇气不抱怨。你去上周日的中文学习班时，尽管一点也不觉得有趣，却依然很努力。我们做父母的能有像你这样的女儿真的感到非常幸运。
　　You have been an excellent elder sister.
Even though you two had your share of fights, the last few years you have become best friends.
Your sister loves you so much, and she loves to make you laugh.
She looks up to you, and sees you as her role model.
As you saw when we departed, she misses you so much.
And I know that you miss her just as much.
There is nothing like family, and other than your parents, your sister is the one person who you can trust and confide in.
She will be the one to take care of you, and the one you must take care of. There is nothing we wish more than that your sisterhood will continue to bond as you grow older, and that you will take care of each other throughout your lives.
For the next four years, do have a short video chat with her every few days, and do email her when you have a chance。
　　你也是个很好的姐姐。虽然你们姐妹以前也会打架，但是长大后，你们真的成为了好朋友。妹妹很爱你，很喜欢逗你笑，她把你当成她的榜样看待。我们开车离开哥大后，她非常想你，我知道你也很想她。世界上最宝贵的就是家人。和父母一样，妹妹就是你最可以信任的人。随着年龄的增长，你们姐妹之间的情谊不变，你们互相照应，彼此关心，这就是我最希望见到的事情了。在你的大学四年，有空时你一定要常常跟妹妹视频聊聊天，写写电子邮件。
　　College will be the most important years in your life.
It is in college that you will truly discover what learning is about.
You often question “what good is this course”.
I encourage you to be inquisitive, but I also want to tell you :“education is what you have left after all that is taught is forgotten”.
What I mean by that is the materials taught isn’t as important as you gaining the ability to learn a new subject, and the ability to analyze a new problem.
That is really what learning in college is about C this will be the period where you go from teacher-taught to master-inspired, after which you must become self-learner.
So do take each subject seriously, and even if what you learn isn’t critical for your life, the skills of learning will be something you cherish forever。
　　大学将是你人生最重要的时光，在大学里你会发现学习的真谛。你以前经常会问到 “这个课程有什么用”，这是个好问题，但是我希望你理解：“教育的真谛就是当你忘记一切所学到的东西之后所剩下的东西。”我的意思是，最重要的不是你学到的具体的知识，而是你学习新事物和解决新问题的能力。这才是大学学习的真正意义――这将是你从被动学习转向自主学习的阶段，之后你会变成一个很好的自学者。所以，即便你所学的不是生活里所急需的，也要认真看待大学里的每一门功课，就算学习的技能你会忘记，学习的能力是你将受用终身的。
　　Do not fall into the trap of dogma.
There is no single simple answer to any question.
Remember during your high school debate class, I always asked you to take on the side that you don’t believe in?
I did that for a reason -- things rarely“black and white”， and there are always many ways to look at a problem.
You will become a better problem solver if you recognized that.
This is called “critical thinking”， and it is the most important thinking skill you need for your life.
This also means you need to become tolerant and supportive of others.
I will always remember when I went to my Ph.D. advisor and proposed a new thesis topic.
He said “I don’t agree with you, but I’ll support you。”
After the years, I have learned this isn’t just flexibility, it is encouragement of critical thinking, and an empowering style of leadership, and it has become a part of me.
I hope it will become a part of you too。
　　不要被教条所束缚，任何问题都没有一个唯一的简单的答案。还记得当我帮助你高中的辩论课程时，我总是让你站在你不认可的那一方来辩论吗？我这么做的理由就是希望你能够理解：看待一个问题不应该非黑即白，而是有很多方法和角度。当你意识到这点的时候，你就会成为一个很好的解决问题者。这就是“批判的思维”――你的一生都会需要的最重要的思考方式，这也意味着你还需要包容和支持不同于你的其他观点。我永远记得我去找我的博士导师提出了一个新论题，他告诉我：“我不同意你，但我支持你。”多年后，我认识到这不仅仅是包容，而是一种批判式思考，更是令人折服的领导风格，现在这也变成了我的一部分。我希望这也能成为你的一部分。
　　Follow your passion in college.
Take courses you think you will enjoy.
Don’t be trapped in what others think or say.
Steve Jobs says when you are in college, your passion will create many dots, and later in your life you will connect them. In his great speech given at Stanford commencement , he gave the great example where he took calligraphy, and a decade later, it became the basis of the beautiful Macintosh fonts, which later ignited desktop publishing, and brought wonderful tools like Microsoft Word to our lives.
His expedition into calligraphy was a dot, and the Macintosh became the connecting line.
So don’t worry too much about what job you will have, and don’t be too utilitarian, and if you like Japanese or Korean, go for it, even if your dad thinks “it’s not useful。”
Enjoy picking your dots, and be assured one day you will find your calling, and connect a beautiful curve through the dots。
　　在大学里你要追随自己的激情和兴趣，选你感兴趣的课程，不要困扰于别人怎么说或怎么想。史蒂夫•乔布斯曾经说过，在大学里你的热情会创造出很多点，在你随后的生命中你会把这些点串联起来。在他著名的斯坦福毕业典礼演讲中，他举了一个很好的例子：他在大学里修了看似毫无用处的书法，而十年后，这成了苹果Macintosh里漂亮字库的基础，而因为Macintosh有这么好的字库，才带来了桌面出版和今天的办公软件(例如微软Office)。他对书法的探索就是一个点，而苹果Macintosh把多个点联结成了一条线。所以不要太担心将来你要做什么样的工作，也不要太急功近利。假如你喜欢日语或韩语，就去学吧，尽管你的爸爸曾说过那没什么用：)尽兴地选择你的点吧，要有信念有一天机缘来临时，你会找到自己的人生使命，画出一条美丽的曲线。
　　Do your best in classes, but don’t let pressure get to you.
Your mother and I have no expectations for your grades.
If you graduate and learn something in your four years, we would feel happy.
Your Columbia degree will take you far, even if you don’t graduate with honors.
So please don’t give yourself pressure。During your last few months in high school, you were so happy because there was little pressure and college applications are finished.
But in the past few weeks, we saw you are beginning to worry (did you know you bite your nails when you are nervous?).
Please don’t be worried.
The only thing that matters is that you learned.
The only metric you should use is that you tried.
Grades are just silly letters that give the vain people something to brag, and the lazy people something to fear.
You are too good to be either。
　　在功课上要尽力，但不要给自己太多压力。你妈妈和我在成绩上对你没什么要求，只要你能顺利毕业并在这四年里学到了些东西，我们就会很高兴了。即便你毕业时没有获得优异的成绩，你的哥伦比亚学位也将带你走得很远。所以别给自己压力。在你高中生活的最后几个月，因为压力比较小，大学申请也结束了，你过得很开心，但是在最近的几个星期，你好像开始紧张起来。(你注意到你紧张时会咬指甲吗？)千万别担心，最重要的是你有在学习，你需要的唯一衡量是你的努力程度。成绩只不过是虚荣的人用以吹嘘和慵懒的人所恐惧的无聊数字而已，而你既不虚荣也不慵懒。
　　Most importantly, make friends and be happy.
College friends are often the best in life, because during college you are closer to them physically than to your family. Also, going through independence and adulthood is a natural bonding experience.
Pick a few friends and become really close to them C pick the ones who are genuine and sincere to you.
Don’t worry about their hobbies, grades, looks, or even personalities.
You have developed some real friendships in high school in your last two years, so trust your instinct, and make new friends.
You are a genuine and sincere person C anyone would enjoy being your friend, so be confident, outgoing, and pro-active.
If you think you like someone, tell her.
You have very little to lose. Give people the
don’t stereotype and be forgiving.
People are not perfect, so as long as they are genuine and sincere, trust them and be good to them.
They will give back.
This is my secret of success C that I am genuine with people and trust them (unless they do something to lose my trust).
Some people tell me that occasionally I would be taken advantage of.
They are right, but I can tell you that that loss is nothing compared to what I gained.
In my last 18 years leading people, I have realized that only one thing matters C to gain the trust and respect of others, and to do so, you need to trust and respect others first.
Whether it is for management, work, or friendship, this is something you should ponder。
　　最重要的是在大学里你要交一些朋友，快乐生活。大学的朋友往往是生命中最好的朋友，因为在大学里你和朋友能够近距离交往。另外，在一块儿成长，一起独立，很自然地你们就会紧紧地系在一起，成为密友。你应该挑选一些真诚诚恳的朋友，跟他们亲近，别在乎他们的爱好、成绩、外表甚至性格。你在高中的最后两年已经交到了一些真正的朋友，所以尽可以相信自己的直觉，再交一些新朋友吧。你是一个真诚的人，任何人都会喜欢跟你做朋友的，所以要自信、外向、主动一点，如果你喜欢某人，就告诉她，就算她拒绝了，你也没有损失什么。以最大的善意去对人，不要有成见，要宽容。人无完人，只要他们很真诚，就信任他们，对他们友善。他们将给你相同的回报，这是我成功的秘密――我以诚待人，信任他人(除非他们做了失信于我的事)。有人告诉这样有时我会被占便宜，他们是对的，但是我可以告诉你：以诚待人让我得到的远远超过我失去的。在我做管理的18年里，我学到一件很重要的事――要想得到他人的信任和尊重，只有先去信任和尊重他人。无论是管理、工作、交友，这点都值得你参考。
　　Do keep your high school friends, and stay connected to them, but do not use them as substitutes for college friendship, and do not spend too much time with them, because that would eat into your time to make new friends。
　　要和你高中时代的朋友保持联系，但是不要用他们来取代大学的友谊，也不要把全部的时间都花在老朋友身上，因为那样你就会失去交新朋友的机会了。
　　Start planning for your summers early C what would you like to do?
Where would you like to live?
What would you like to learn?
What have you learned in college that might change your mind?
I think your plan of studying fashion is good, and you should decide where you want to be, and get into the right courses.
We of course hope you come back to Beijing, but you should go where you think is best for you。
　　你还要早点开始规划你的暑假――你想做什么？你想呆在哪儿？你想学点什么？你在大学里学习是否会让你有新的打算？我觉得你学习艺术设计的计划很不错，你应该想好你该去哪儿学习相应的课程。我们当然希望你回到北京，但是最终的决定是你的。
　　Whether it is summer-planning, or coursework planning, or picking a major, or managing your time, you should take control of your life.
In the past, I have helped you quite a bit, whether it is in college application, designing your extracurricular activities, or picking the initial coursework.
I will always be there for you, but the time has come for you to be in the driver’s seat C this is your life, and you need to be in control.
I will always remember the exhilarating feeling in my life Cthat I got to decide to skip kindergarten, that I got to decide to change to computer science major, that I got to decide to leave academia for Apple, that I got to decide to go to China, that I got to decide to go to Google, and most recently, that I got to decide to start my own business.
Being able to decide means you get to live the life that you want to.
Life is too short to live the life others do or others want you. Being in control feels great.
Try it, and you’ll love it!
　　不管是暑假计划，功课规划，抑或是选专业，管理时间，你都应该负责你的人生。过去不管是申请学校、设计课外活动或者选择最初的课程，我都从旁帮助了你不少。以后，我仍然会一直站你身旁，但是现在是你自己掌舵的时候了。我常常记起我生命中那些令人振奋的时刻――在幼儿园决定跳级，决定转到计算机科学专业，决定离开学术界选择Apple，决定回中国，决定选择Google，乃至最近选择创办我的新公司。有能力进行选择意味着你会过上自己想要的生活。生命太短暂了，你不能过别人想要你过的生活。掌控自己的生命是很棒的感觉，试试吧，你会爱上它的！
　　I told your mom I’m writing this letter, and asked what she wanted me to say.
She thought and said: “just ask her to take care of herself。”
Simple but deeply caringC that is how your mother is, and that is why you love her so much.
In this simple sentence is her hope that you will become independent in the way you take care of yourself C that you will remember to take your medicine, that you will get enough sleep, that you will have a balanced diet, that you will get some exercise, and that you will go see a doctor whenever you don’t feel good.
An ancient Chinese proverb says that the most important thing to be nice to your parents is to take care of yourself.
This is because your parents love you so much, and that if you are well, they will have comfort.
You will understand this one day when you become a mother. But in the meantime, please listen to your mother and take care of yourself。
　　我告诉你妈妈我在写这封信，问她有什么想对你说的，她想了想，说“让她好好照顾自己”，很简单却饱含着真切的关心――这一向是你深爱的妈妈的特点。这短短的一句话，是她想提醒你很多事情，比如要记得自己按时吃药，好好睡觉，保持健康的饮食，适量运动，不舒服的时候要去看医生等等。中国有句古语，说“身体发肤，受之父母，不敢毁伤，孝之始也”。这句话的意思用比较新的方法诠释就是说：父母最爱的就是你，所以照顾好自己就是孝顺最好的方法。当你成为母亲的那天，你就会理解这些。在那天之前，听妈妈的，你一定要好好照顾自己。
　　College is the four years where you have:
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the greatest amount of free time
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the first chance to be independent
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the most flexibility to change
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the lowest risk for making mistakes
　　So please treasure your college years C make the best of your free time, become an independent thinker in control of your destiny, evolve yourself into a bi-cultural talent, be bold to experiment, learn and grow through your successes and challenges。
　　大学是你自由时间最多的四年。
　　大学是你第一次学会独立的四年。
　　大学是可塑性最强的四年。
　　大学是犯错代价最低的四年。
　　所以，珍惜你的大学时光吧，好好利用你的空闲时间，成为掌握自己命运的独立思考者，发展自己的多元化才能，大胆地去尝试，通过不断的成功和挑战来学习和成长，成为融汇中西的人才。
　　When I faced the greatest challenge and opportunity in my life in 2005, you gave me a big hug and said “bonne chance”， which means “good luck” and “good courage”. Now I do the same for you.
Bonne chance, my angel and princess.
May Columbia become the happiest four years in your life, and may you blossom into just what you dream to be。
　　当我在2005年面对人生最大的挑战时，你给了我大大的拥抱，还跟我说了一句法语“bonne chance”。这句话代表“祝你勇敢，祝你好运！”现在，我也想跟你说同样的话，bonne chance，我的天使和公主，希望哥伦比亚成为你一生中最快乐的四年，希望你成为你梦想成为的人！
　　Dad (& Mom)
　　爱你的，
　　爸爸(和妈妈)
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